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Vedanta proclaims loudly


Vedanta Dindima (the drum beat of Vedanta) is an amazing text in the form of crisp slokas about what Vedanta proclaims is Brahman. There are 94 shlokas in it containing the essence everyone must know before entering the Grihastha Asrama. In the 8th shloka, there is a good proclamation about what is worth listening to and what is not worth listening to. It is necessary in this day and age when we are all ultra-consumers of processed digital food. We need to know what is pure unprocessed food that is healthy for your well being.

श्रोतव्या श्राव्य रूपौ द्वौ पदार्थौ सुखदु:खदौ
श्रोतव्यम् ब्रह्म नैवान्यत् इति वेदान्त डिन्डिम:

There are two categories, one worth listening to that bestows joy and the other being unworthy causes pain. The one worth listening to is alone Brahman; not the other. This is the proclamation of Vedanta. BhagavadGita also says :

Intellect absorbed in That, their Self being That, established in that, with That for their supreme Goal, they go whence there is no return, their sins dispelled by Knowledge. [ Chapter 5 – Verse 17 ] [1]

Gaining knowledge begins from the childhood phase only by listening. Children gather words and their vocabulary primarily by listening alone. Listening is a powerful skill that must develop over time from our childhood into adulthood. As an adult, we have the freedom to choose what we listen to. Therefore it is proclaimed that only Brahma vishaya or the talks about Brahman are bound to give you sukham i.e. happiness not any other talks. To listen and listen well are skills that must be deliberated worked upon by each of us on a path to uplift ourselves spiritually. Listening is the cornerstone for human learning. This is the reason we have two ears and one mouth. To listen more and speak as needed. Wedon’t need any ideals but just look at our own Gods for getting inspired to imbibe this quality of listening. In the Mahabharatha, on the battlefield of Kurukshetra, Bhagavan Sri Krishna listens with complete attention to whatever depressed Arjuna has to say because listening with complete attention is in itself healing. Listening with complete attention is also the greatest compliment you can give anyone. We all need attention – that is one of the greatest people truths.

To go back to our point of discussing “worthy listening”, we must understand what is to be done before we start listening. Even before we start listening to Vedanta as an adult, we must empty ourselves. Without emptying ourselves, we cannot receive wisdom. Wisdom is given only to those who have become silent inside and not to those with crowded minds.[2]

An interesting order of knowledge (Jnana samuparjana is shown here). Srotavya (Listening) has to be followed by Mantavya i.e. reflecting thinking. This must be followed by Nididhyasanam i.e. assimilating, internalising and becoming contemplatory. When we are able to follow this SOP (standard operating procedure), our life will become spiritually uplifting. What do you listen to on a daily basis? For a start, listen to

References:

[1] https://vedantastudents.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/10/02-Vedanta-Dindima-Versewise-Notes.pdf

[2] https://www.boloji.com/articles/51855/living-gita-24-the-miracle-of-listening

Guroh adhikam na


Shivaya gurave namaha. When Shiva answered Parvatis questions throughout the Shiva sutras, he was doing us all a great favor by explaining the nature of existence, the nature of the self and the nature of the divine. Without this knowledge we wouldn’t know anything. For example, the slokam everyone is aware of from the Vishnu Sahasranamam is a result of the question Mother Parvati asks Shiva if there was an easier way for those who couldn’t chant the entire Vishnu Sahasranama. Shiva responds to her and gives the ultimate mantra in the form of a slokam

Srirama rama rameti rame raame manorame Sahasranama tattulyam rama nama varaanane

ADIGURU Sri Dakshinamurthy- a form of Shiva

Shiva is considered the prime Guru in many traditions, not only in the Vaishnava and Skanda traditions but also in the Shakta including the SriVidya tradition. Indeed, the title of this post, Guroh Adhikam na is part of the slokam in the Guru Gita of the Skanda Purana.

Na guroradhikam na guroradhikam na guroradhikam Shiva shasanatah

It means that Shiva is commanding that there is none greater than the Guru, the dispeller of ignorance (called Avidya or un-knowledge). This is emphasized by mentioning the statement ‘Na Guroradhikam’ three times. The benefit of Shiva’s command about the Guru is that one who knows this to be true, will open doors to the land of self-knowledge aka tatva gyana. One’s mind becomes ready (qualified) to experience self-knowledge.

The word Guru has an etymological origin in Sanskrit (one of many etymological meanings) : Gukaarastaditi proktah rushadbo gyanavaachakah brahmagyanaikya rupatvaat gururityabhidhiyate

Gu is a sound that dispels darkness (ignorance) and ru sound provides gyana (self-knowledge) therefore the combination Guru sound provides the ultimate knowledge (knowing which, everything becomes known).

There is also a school of thought which says that when the student is ready, a Guru appears before him. When the student is really ready, the Guru leaves. This goes to say that a Guru is necessary to plant the seed of wisdom inside you, but when the seed becomes a tree, his job is done. The nature of a Guru sishya relation is very unique and highly spiritual. Only the sishya knows how his Gurus teachings are transforming him and only the Guru can feel his transformation. A sincere student with a pure heart and dedication towards the words of the Guru is bound to receive pure knowledge because he became a vessel free from impurities. This is called patra shuddhi. Only the milk poured in a clean bowl becomes fit for consumption. Similarly, only once we free our mind from the waves of thoughts and still it, we become eligible for the vast ocean of self knowledge. Be that student who is thirsty for knowledge and has the sincerity to pursue a Guru’s knowledge. Then you will understand the true meaning of Na Guroradhikam.

Fortunate are those who have a Guru to guide them in their spiritual journey.

Peace of mind


If you’re situated in sattvaguna then you will have peace of mind. Peace is called as shanta rasa. When comes this peace of mind or shanti? Only to a person who is desire-free. So if you are serious about having peace of mind and if you’re serious about your advancement in spiritual life then you must follow what is there in the shastra and what is spoken by Krishna himself. Only then life is successful. Hare Krishna.

Out of the three gunas or bhavas one must let go of the two inferior qualities of rajo guna and tamo guna. The symptoms of the rajo and tamo bhavas are kama and lobha or those who are infected with being very lusty and very greedy. They are not satisfied and this is the basis of the modern civilization. Only the less intelligent people cannot let go of these two qualities.

Only the intelligent persons are situated in sattva guna and therefore are able to perform pure devotional service to Krishna without any disturbance.

From Srila Prabhupadas Srimad Bhagavatam lecture on Understanding Krishna’s mercy.

Peace of mind


If you’re situated in sattvaguna then you will have peace of mind. Peace is called as shanta rasa. When comes this peace of mind or shanti? Only to a person who is desire-free. So if you are serious about having peace of mind and if you’re serious about your advancement in spiritual life then you must follow what is there in the shastra and what is spoken by Krishna himself. Only then life is successful. Hare Krishna.

Out of the three gunas or bhavas one must let go of the two inferior qualities of rajo guna and tamo guna. The symptoms of the rajo and tamo bhavas are kama and lobha or those who are infected with being very lusty and very greedy. They are not satisfied and this is the basis of the modern civilization. Only the less intelligent people cannot let go of these two qualities.

Only the intelligent persons are situated in sattva guna and therefore are able to perform pure devotional service to Krishna without any disturbance.

From Srila Prabhupadas Srimad Bhagavatam lecture on Understanding Krishna’s mercy.

What we can learn from Gandhiji’s experiments with truth


Gandhiji was an Indian who had principles. He conducted himself in an inspiring way and influenced masses of Indians through his noble thoughts. His life quest has always been the search for Truth. It’s worth learning about his thoughts and lessons he learnt so we may not repeat the same old mistakes and conduct our lives with attention and care and strive for highest standards of human living. People may like or dislike a person, but a person with moral fiber irrespective of what religion he belongs to, must be appreciated. Gandhiji set an example for several Indians and the world with his moral fiber and his message needs repetition so long as man doesn’t reach his best potential. As a follower of his thoughts, I wish to share some statements I gathered by reading his autobiography with hope that you find some points worthy of implementation in your lives. Some of them need contemplation on our part, so let’s not read them when we are in a hurry.

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I never could learn the art of ‘copying’.

 

I had learnt to carry out the orders of elders, not to scan their actions.

 

Today, I know that physical training should have as much place in the curriculum as mental training.

 

I saw that a man of truth must also be a man of care.

 

I saw that bad handwriting should be regarded as a sign of an imperfect education.

 

A clean confession, combined with a promise never to commit the sin again, when offered before one who has the right to receive it, is the purest type of repentance.

 

Today Ramanama is an infallible remedy for me.

 

Today I regard the Ramayana of Tulasidas as the greatest book in all devotional literature.

 

One thing took deep root in me- the conviction that morality is the basis of things, and that truth is the substance of all morality. Truth became my sole objective.

 

‘Return good for evil’ became my guiding principle.

 

Let every youth take a leaf out of my book and make it a point to account for everything that comes into and goes out of his pocket, and like me he is sure to be a gainer in the end.

 

My hesitancy in speech, which was once an annoyance, is now a pleasure. Its greatest benefit has been that it has taught me the economy of words.

 

Experience has taught me that silence is part of the spiritual discipline of a votary of truth. A man of few words will rarely be thoughtless in his speech; he will measure every word.

 

Supplication, worship, prayer are no superstition; they are acts more real than the acts of eating, drinking, sitting or walking. It is no exaggeration to say that they alone are real, all else is unreal.

 

I believe in the Hindu theory of Guru and his importance in spiritual realization.

 

I think there is a great deal of truth in the doctrine that true knowledge is impossible without a Guru.

 

I very much liked the company of children, and the habit of joking and playing with them has stayed with me till today.

 

I have seen by experience that there is much truth in the Indian proverb that as a man eats, so shall he become.

 

Man and his deed are two distinct things. Whereas a good deed should call forth approbation and a wicked deed disapprobation, the door of the deed, whether good or wicked always deserves respect or pity as the case may be.

 

Ahimsa is the basis of the search for truth. I am realizing every day that the search is vain unless it is founded on ahimsa as the basis.

 

Nothing once begun should be abandoned unless it is proved to be morally wrong.

 

I hold that believers who have to see the same God in others that they see in themselves, must be able to live amongst all with sufficient detachment. And the ability to live thus can be cultivated by hailing them in a spirit of service and withal keeping oneself unaffected by them.

 

I realized that the sole aim of journalism should be service. An uncontrolled pen serves but to destroy. If the control is from without, it proves more poisonous than want of control. It can be profitable only when exercised from within.

 

It is my faith, based on experience, that if one’s heart is pure, calamity brings in its train men and measures to fight it.

 

Above all, a votary of truth must exercise the greatest caution. To allow a man to believe a thing which one has not fully verified is to compromise truth.

 

A poet is one who can call forth the good latent in the human breast. Poets do not influence all alike, for everyone is not evolved in a equal measure.

 

I think it is wrong to expect certainties in this world, whereas all else but God that is Truth is an uncertainty. All that appears and happens about and around us is uncertain transient.

 

It is my firm conviction that all good action is bound to bear fruit in the end.

 

To me the Gita became an infallible guide of conduct. It became my dictionary of daily reference. I turned to this dictionary of conduct for a ready solution of all my troubles and trials.

 

I understood the Gita teaching of non-possession to mean that those who desired salvation should act like the trustee who, though having control over great possessions, regards not an iota of them as his own. It became clear to me as daylight that non-possession and equability presupposed a change of heart, a change of attitude.

 

To incur debt- a thing I have never done in my life and always abhorred. I realized that even a man’s reforming zeal ought not to make him exceed his limits.

 

A writer almost always presents one aspect of a case, whereas every case can be seen from no less than seven points of view, all of which are probably correct by themselves, but not correctat the same time and in the same circumstances.

 

Truth is like a vast tree, which yields more and more fruit, the more you nurture it. The deeper the search in the mine of truth, the richer the discovery of the gems buried there, in the shape of openings for an ever greater variety of service.

 

The voice of the people is the voice of God.

 

I am definitely of opinion that a public worker should accept no costly gifts.

 

Service is no mushroom growth. It presupposes the will first, and then experience.

 

How heavy is the toll of sins and wrongs that wealth, power and prestige exact from man!

 

I had cultivated the habit of self-help, I needed very little personal attendance. I had the habit of fending for myself, personal cleanliness, perseverance and regularity.

 

No matter what amount of work one has, one should always find some time for physical exercise, just as one does for one’s meals. It is my humble opinion that, far from taking away from one’s capacity for work, it adds to it.

 

To my mind the life of a lamb is no less precious than that of a human being. I hold that, the more helpless a creature, the more entitled it is to protection by man from the cruelty of man.

 

I advised youth that it was far better to remain unlettered and break stones for the sake of liberty than to go in for a literary education in the chains of slaves.

 

I am convinced that for the proper upbringing of children, the parents ought to have a general knowledge of the care and nursing of babies.

 

It became my conviction that procreation and the consequent care of children were inconsistent with public service.

 

I realized that a vow, far from closing the door to real freedom, opened it.

 

Those who desire to observe brahmacharya with a view to realizing God need not despair, provided their faith in God is equal to their confidence in their own effort.

 

Human nature shows itself at its best in moments of trial.

 

Without infinite patience it is impossible to get people to do any work. It is the reformer who is anxious for the reform, and not society, from which he should expect nothing better than opposition, abhorrence and even moral persecution.

 

I had long learnt the principle of never having more money at one’s disposal than necessary.

 

Carefully kept accounts are a sine qua non for any organization. Without them, it falls into disrepute. Without proper accounts it is impossible to maintain truth in its pristine purity.

 

I want to reserve my strength for fighting bigger battles. It was worthy of a better cause.

 

The very insistence on truth has taught me the beauty of compromise. This spirit has often meant endangering my life and incurring the displeasure of friends. But truth is hard as adamant and tender as a blossom.

 

The heart’s earnest and pure desire is always fulfilled. In my own experience, I have often seen this rule verified.

 

It has always been a mystery to me how men can feel themselves honored by the humiliation of their fellow beings.

 

Truth triumphed in the end. Yet, it would not have triumphed if not for unflinching faith, great patience and incessant effort.

 

If I found myself entirely absorbed in the service of the community, the reason behind it was my desire for self-realization.

 

Howsoever you man repair it, a rift is a rift.

 

Like loyalty, an aptitude for nursing was also deep-rooted in my nature. I was fond of nursing people, strangers or friends. My aptitude for nursing gradually developed into a passion.

 

Service which is rendered without joy neither helps the servant nor the served. But all other pleasures and possessions pale into nothingness before service which is rendered in a spirit of joy.

 

My experience has shown me that we win justice quickest by rendering justice to the other party.

 

It is idle to adjudicate upon the right and wrong of incidents that have already happened. It is useful to understand them and, if possible, to learn a lesson from them in the future.

 

Judging a man from his outward act is no more than a doubtful inference, inasmuch as it is not based on sufficient data.

 

The education that children naturally imbibe in a well-ordered household in impossible to obtain in hostels.

 

‘Hate the sin and not the sinner’ is a precept which, though easy to understand, is rarely practiced, and that is why the poison of hatred spreads in the world.

 

One should eat not in order to please the palate, but just to keep the body going. When each organ of sense subserves the body and through the body the soul, its special relish disappears, and then alone does it begin to function in the way nature intended it to do.

 

Inhibitions imposed from without rarely succeed, but when they are self-imposed, they have a decidedly salutary effect.

 

I have always felt that the true text-book for the pupil is his teacher.

 

Children take in much more and with less labour through their ears than through their eyes.

 

In the march towards Truth, anger, selfishness, hatred etc. naturally give way, for otherwise Truth would be impossible to attain. A man who is swayed by passions may have good enough intentions, may be truthful in word, but he will never find the Truth. A successful search for Truth means complete deliverance from the dual throng such as of love and hate, happiness and misery.

 

A votary of ahimsa remains true to his faith if the spring of all his actions is compassion, if he shuns to the best of his ability the destruction of the tiniest creature, tries to save it, and thus incessantly strives to be free from the deadly coil of himsa. He will be constantly growing in self-restraint and compassion, but he can never become entirely free from outward himsa.

 

A devotee of Truth may not do anything in deference to convention. He must always hold himself open to correction, and whenever he discovers himself to be wrong he must confess it at all costs and atone for it.

 

One who has faith reds in the trials and disappointments, the merciful providence of God, who thus sweetens sorrow itself.

 

Humility would cease to be humility the moment it became a matter of vow. The true connotation of humility is self-effacement.

 

Service without humility is selfishness and egotism.

 

Disinterested service of the people in any sphere ultimately helps the country politically.

 

Experience has taught me that civility is the most difficult part of Satyagraha. Civility does not here mean outward gentleness and desire to do the opponent good. These should show themselves in every act of a Satyagrahi.

 

The salvation of the people depends upon themselves, upon their capacity for suffering and sacrifice.

 

I have never liked to live for the sake of living. It was such a agony to live on in that helpless state, doing nothing, receiving the service of friends and co-workers, and watching the body slowly wearing away.

 

The ideal of truth requires that vows taken should be fulfilled in the spirit as well as in the letter.

 

Doubt is invariably the result of want or weakness of faith. ‘Lord, give me faith’ is, therefore, my prayer day and night.

 

I have noticed this characteristic difference in the popular attitude- partiality for exciting work, dislike for quiet constructive work.

 

I have always held that it is only when one sees one’s own mistakes with a convex lens, and does just the reverse in the case of others, that one is able to arrive at a just relative estimate of the two. I further believe that a scrupulous and conscientious observance of this rule is necessary for one who wants to be a good Satyagrahi.

 

To safeguard democracy, the people must have a keen sense of interdependence, self-respect and their oneness, and should insist upon choosing as their representatives only such persons as are good and true.

 

My uniform experience has convinced me that there is no other God than Truth.

 

This much I can say with assurance, as a result of all my experiments, that a perfect vision of Truth can only follow a complete realization of Ahimsa.

 

So long as a man does not of his own free will put himself last among his fellow creatures, there is no salvation for him. Ahimsa is the farthest limit of humility.